Listen to Debra Berndt, Clinical Hypnotherapist, Dating Expert/Author/Speaker discuss how to heal loneliness through the power of hypnosis featured on Denver’s CHannel 7 News. 25% of US households consist of only one person (up from 10% in 1950). Not all of these people are lonely, but most who are go to food, television and alcohol ...…
Why are women so attracted to the bad boys? You want love, you desire love but when a nice guy shows up in your life, you feel like running away. The man has an impressive resume, wants everything in life that you do, but you cannot seem to stop obsessing about the jerk who dumped ...…
Everything you do when dating is your choice. Some women believe that their fate lies in the hands of the man, waiting for him to accept her into his life. You can never win in such a submissive position. The source of this insecure behavior is in your subconscious mind. Some time in your life ...…
To alleviate nervousness before a first date, it may help to consider that everything you experience is inside of you. You get to determine what everything means. If you go into the date feeling good about yourself, you will interpret the things he says and does as positive. If you feel insecure, your mind will ...…
No matter who you are or where you are in your dating search, there is always at least one time when the guy you are interested in does not call. Sure, you had a great date and felt like you had a real connection. He said he would call during the week but the call ...…
If there is one thing for certain, disappointment is a part of dating. Most people are in denial of this realization. They believe that they are going to join an online dating service and magically “the right one” will show up immediately. Many have that expectation because of the stories heard from other singles who ...…
Many singles think they want a relationship, but are really afraid of commitment and intimacy with someone who really cares for them. These hidden fears from past hurts and possible abuse have put an armor of protection around their heart. They reject available men who treat them nice, while they pine over their old boyfriends ...…
I recently was interviewed by a writer on Match.com regarding the email communications between prospective online daters. It made me realize how our dating society has changed. In my dating days, I remember the difference in how men communicated with me after seeing my online dating ad. Some jumped right in and gave me their ...…
Can hypnosis really help you feel sexier, more attractive and a magnet to men? The answer is absolutely yes! When you are feeling good, you stand taller, look thinner and carry yourself differently. The subconscious automatically adjusts your posture, your facial expressions and your tone of voice according to your inner-most thoughts. Most people live ...…
In my last post, I discussed projections and how the people you date are just a mirror to your own belief system. Let’s think about this in terms of one date. What happens to you when you have a first date with someone? Listen to the conversation you are having with yourself as you are ...…
