To alleviate nervousness before a first date, it may help to consider that everything you experience is inside of you. You get to determine what everything means. If you go into the date feeling good about yourself, you will interpret the things he says and does as positive. If you feel insecure, your mind will ...…
No matter who you are or where you are in your dating search, there is always at least one time when the guy you are interested in does not call. Sure, you had a great date and felt like you had a real connection. He said he would call during the week but the call ...…
If there is one thing for certain, disappointment is a part of dating. Most people are in denial of this realization. They believe that they are going to join an online dating service and magically “the right one” will show up immediately. Many have that expectation because of the stories heard from other singles who ...…
Many singles think they want a relationship, but are really afraid of commitment and intimacy with someone who really cares for them. These hidden fears from past hurts and possible abuse have put an armor of protection around their heart. They reject available men who treat them nice, while they pine over their old boyfriends ...…
I recently was interviewed by a writer on Match.com regarding the email communications between prospective online daters. It made me realize how our dating society has changed. In my dating days, I remember the difference in how men communicated with me after seeing my online dating ad. Some jumped right in and gave me their ...…
Can hypnosis really help you feel sexier, more attractive and a magnet to men? The answer is absolutely yes! When you are feeling good, you stand taller, look thinner and carry yourself differently. The subconscious automatically adjusts your posture, your facial expressions and your tone of voice according to your inner-most thoughts. Most people live ...…
In my last post, I discussed projections and how the people you date are just a mirror to your own belief system. Let’s think about this in terms of one date. What happens to you when you have a first date with someone? Listen to the conversation you are having with yourself as you are ...…
Most relationship problems are caused by our projections. Whether you are looking for love or in a long-term relationship, most problems in relating to your partner are a result of patterns from your past. Since childhood, our subconscious has built a database of information on how we relate to men and women based on our ...…
