Singles searching for the love of their life are often looking in the wrong place. They fail to see opportunities right in front of them because they are focused on the wedding day vs. the journey that it takes to arrive at the altar. When you focus only on the end result in a limited ...…
You walk into Starbucks® and see the menu of options. You wonder if you should you get the grande or the tall, the cappuccino or the latte. The line is moving and it is almost your turn. There is a little tension building inside of you about what to order as if the world will ...…
Having a hard time getting a date? Don’t blame external factors like where you live, how many available singles there are in your area or that the opposite sex is just too hard to please. Look within yourself to see what is subconsciously creating your dry spell. Watch this video to find out how to ...…
For years when I struggled with finding love I used to get the advice from well-intentioned friends, “You’ll find someone when you stop looking for it.” I always responded back, “How do I stop looking for something I really want?” If you have heard this, you probably felt the same angst that I did as ...…
Being a previous long-time single and through my experience in the love industry for the past ten years, I have seen a lot of dating advice floating around. I am still shocked by some of the tips I see explaining to women what they are doing wrong and why they are still single. Do you ...…
I have a secret guilty pleasure and that is watching The Bachelor series. I know, I know, most of the time it is just a train wreck of ridiculously attractive men and women who have low self-esteem and very little depth to them. What amazes me over the years of working with singles that even ...…
If you have been familiar with my work you know that I always say that there isn’t a point in time when you are “done,” when life will magically fall into place perfectly forever. The essence of life is having ups and downs. Disappointments (big and small) are inevitable. You are always learning and growing, ...…
Many singles tell me they have a problem keeping a man around. Everything starts off fine but then the guy disappears a few weeks into the relationship. After an intense pursuit of her love, he just stops. Now, you can read all the rules and understand men until you are blue in the face, but ...…
If you are single over 25 years of age, you have undoubtedly heard the question, “Why aren’t you married?” There is a certain undercurrent that goes with the question and you may interpret their prodding into your personal life as if they are saying “What is wrong with you?” or “I can’t believe someone like ...…
When I was single I used to spend a lot of time in the self-help relationships section of the bookstore. After years of searching, every book started to look the same and the advice was just a regurgitation of some other dating expert’s theories I have heard a million times in the past. My mind ...…
