Alexis had been single for a while and felt like there was no end in sight in her search for true love. She reluctantly dragged herself to single events and left each time feeling defeated. Every once in a while she would go out with a cute guy that she met online and have a ...…
Wanting something and being ready for it are two separate things. Like anything in life, you can only accept things and experiences that you are prepared to receive. Finding your true love is like winning the lottery. It is a fact that most lottery winners go bankrupt within the first year after winning their prize ...…
If you have been familiar with my work you know that I always say that there isn’t a point in time when you are “done,” when life will magically fall into place perfectly forever. The essence of life is having ups and downs. Disappointments (big and small) are inevitable. You are always learning and growing, ...…
Many singles tell me they have a problem keeping a man around. Everything starts off fine but then the guy disappears a few weeks into the relationship. After an intense pursuit of her love, he just stops. Now, you can read all the rules and understand men until you are blue in the face, but ...…
If you are single over 25 years of age, you have undoubtedly heard the question, “Why aren’t you married?” There is a certain undercurrent that goes with the question and you may interpret their prodding into your personal life as if they are saying “What is wrong with you?” or “I can’t believe someone like ...…
Everything in life has a price and you pay a price based a perceived value. Just like selecting a mate, you always attract into your life an exact match to how you much value you see in yourself. Do you feel like you have been hanging out on at the clearance rack, out of style, ...…
I often tell people that it took me twenty years of personal growth work to get my love life on track. There are two reasons for the delay. One problem was that I wasn’t addressing my subconscious beliefs and everything I was learning just sat on the surface, never making any real change. The other ...…
Halloween is a terrific time of year to shed the normal masks of life and become someone a little different. Since parties tend to make singles more self-conscious, the costume party really helps to bring shy people out of their shell and express themselves in ways they would typically avoid. Selecting the right costume can ...…
Everyone has masks they wear in different situations. The person you are at work can be quite different to the identity you have with your friends and family. Learning the acceptable way to act in certain environments was taught to you throughout your life experience in an effort to please others. Getting lost in these ...…
After a new year begins, many singles wonder if this is the year “it” will happen. Running out of patience, they put pressure on themselves to get out there in an attempt to force love into their lives. It is a natural reaction for people to want to connect with others because we need each ...…
