Are you tired of temporary relationships, settling for for mediocre men and falling for the wrong one all the time? Do you want to feel loved, adored and honored by someone YOU are attracted to? You know that you can use the law of attraction to call in your true love but do you feel frustrated with the process? Maybe you are wondering why it works so well for others and not for you?
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The journey to love doesn’t have to be lonely.
You don’t need to do this all on your own. Do you feel like you are the only one who is struggling with finding love? Are all of your friends and co-workers easily getting boyfriends, getting married and having babies? Do you feel that they cannot relate to you and your dating life?
Have you tried to figure this out by reading books and downloading lectures, but are ready to get some real results?
Have you ever wondered if you were meant to have love in this life?
If you have a desire for love, that means that love is already here for you. Can’t see it, then you need to shift your mental perception of yourself and your world and receive the love that is rightfully yours – your ideal dream partner.
The best way to reach any goal is to have the right support and to keep the momentum with like-minded people who are sharing the journey so you can feel loved every step of the way.
If you are ready to commit to attracting your true love this year, then read on…
Met 30 days after my relationship course – I am officiating their wedding!
Looks like the wedding will probably be May 18th… I’m really excited! Thanks! I really do think the work we did for attracting a loving partner was what helped draw us to each other!”
-C.B., Denver, CO
“Debra has helped me to change the course of my life in a most miraculous way… we’re all responsible for our choices and ultimately our lives but receiving assistance as we travel our journey is not only beneficial but sometimes very necessary. Debra helped to create an awareness in my spirit, which allowed the process of healing and spiritual growth to be accelerated, which then took me to places in life that I never could have imagined. Everything became new again and I was able to take the risks that I otherwise may not have had the courage to take. I feel like a brand new creature with an amazing life that I created and Debra showed me how to do that. Thanks so much Deb… I love you
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-K.C., Orlando, FL
Some women start to feel that there is something really wrong with them because they cannot get a guy to commit. Then, they get stuck into a pattern of constantly fixing and feeling like they are doing it all wrong (which many dating books will tell you, right ladies?). You don’t have to change who you are in order to “catch a man,” you simply have to adjust your mindset.
If you stay single too long, you may get lost in negative thinking and self-judgment. After a while you will feel like a spinning wheel stuck in the mud and feel powerless to break free from the heartache of being alone.
Love shouldn’t be so difficult. One of the biggest hurdles to finding your true love is inner RESISTANCE. Of course, you wouldn’t think that you were resisting love, but we are all fighting change – even when the change is good for us - like have an amazing partner!
Working with thousands of singles over the past decade, the most common factor is their unconscious is clearly not set up for a healthy relationship. They yearn for the idea of being close and adored, but they reject it at the same time because their early life experience showed them something otherwise. Even in a so-called “happy family” there are the dynamics of relating programmed into you that you are probably not aware of that is causing a rejection of true love. It is like driving in a car with one foot on the gas and one foot on the brakes and that is why your love life isn’t going anywhere and…it won’t change by itself.
It isn’t that men (or women) won’t commit to you, but you are attracted to the wrong type of men or avoiding attention from the opposite sex all together. What is your true love was right next to you but you couldn’t see him because your blinders were on. You put on the brakes and it feels like you are making a lot of effort but getting nothing in return. Once you realize that you have been in control the entire time, you can allow love in to your heart and experience amazing, true love in record time.
Met her husband an hour after a live event!
During a singles event in February 2009 I participated in your “heart light” exercise designed to attract love. In my mind a dark, backlit figure approached me. I never saw his face. We had a warm, short chat, and then parted, saying we’d see each other soon. We hugged and I felt and saw that he was wearing a soft black sweater with white flecks in it. Later that night, a black man bumped into me at the singles event. We connected immediately. He was wearing a soft black sweater with white flecks in it! Since then he and I have been nearly inseparable. At 52, I had given up hope of finding my life match, but this man possesses all of the qualities I seek. How amazing to know that I first saw this incredible human being in my mind during the heart light exercise, and then met the real deal about an hour later. Imagine that! Thanks, Deb.
Barbara -Denver, Colorado
Hi Deb,
So, first I want to tell you that I have found love this summer!!!! I bought the 7 set MP3 set from you and listened to at least one session every day!!! And at the same time, I stopped worrying about it… and lo and behold, I met Aaron! I am singing from the rooftops! I have been waving your book around as I sing! I’ve given a copy of your book to 4 of my friends so far!!!! They are into it too!
-Mari Ruddy, Denver, Colorado
I was single until I was 41 years old. I asked myself the same questions you are right now. What is wrong with me, what is wrong with men, what do I need to change to get men to like me and want to commit? I used to think that love just wasn’t in the cards for me and that I was destined to live my life alone. I just wasn’t one of those girls who get a guy. I felt like a failure in love.
When I discovered that I was the one stopping the love coming to me and made some quick adjustments, I easily attracted my ideal partner. We’ve been together for seven years and our relationship is strong and fulfilling. He is everything I dreamed of and more! I sometimes have to pinch myself to feel if this is real after so much heartache and pain. I finally cracked the code!
The best part is now we get to teach this work together. Below is a photo of us at our last live event. If you want someone to cherish and adore you as well as share your dreams, I can help you!
Success Stories: They both met their ideal partner within the first two months!
Annabella her dream guy a few months after our coaching program. Here’s a picture of our segment in a reality tv show we shot together last year.
“Debi recently forwarded me an email I had written to her exactly a year ago. I felt I had lost all hope of meeting a truly good man that I would also fall in love with. After a lot of not-so-great relationships, I felt I kept making one bad choice after another. Not having much else to lose, I kept with our program and did my homework. Not only did I meet the most amazing man a month after writing that email, we now live together in a beautiful apartment, about to take our relationship to the next level. I’m so grateful for Debi for not letting me settle, for guiding me to make better choices and helping me find the love and respect for me and through that, the most loving, respectful relationship that’s beyond my wildest dreams. -Annabella – NYC
“I was skeptical about the one year thing but I thought, what could I lose? So I gave it my all and here I am. I want to than you for everything you have done for me. I hope to be able to meet you and hug you for you have been responsible for helping me bring so much joy into my life.”
-Anonymous, Texas
I’ve dabbled in many healing modalities in my search for love. I felt good for a while but then it seemed like I was back where I started. The problem wasn’t with the technique as much as I needed to use it as a part of a larger system. It is like only working on the symptoms, emotional healing, fears and anxiety and treating yourself as if you were broken and need to be fixed. Therapy has been based on the medical model and leaves people feeling dis-empowered as if something was wrong with them. Our life code gives you a solid philosophy to be your foundation so anything you do in this program will work faster and last.
Life is full of ups and downs and you can’t keep pushing your feelings away by running from them. Why would you want to live a numb, boring, predictable existence? Don’t you want passion, fulfillment and excitement in your relationship? Many of the emotions we experience let us really feel alive and with great love.
This program is about your human potential, not therapy or healing. Not self-help, but increasing your SELF-KNOWLEDGE and expand your consciousness so you can create your life and love by your design.
One of the greatest gifts anyone can get in life is the freedom from their suffering. Instead of focusing on the problems, the pain and the heartache, what if you can start to create from the place where you want to end up? Yes, instead of working toward more confidence and feeling better, what if you could just step into love without having to earn your way?
You may understand what I say and really believe you are good enough. This philosophy all makes perfect sense. However, if your results are still leaving you dateless and lonely, then just understanding isn’t enough. You need to have a DIRECT EXPERIENCE of self-love and that is what this program gives you.
Bad love is a bad habit which can be broken. Whether you are constantly jumping from one dead-end love affair to another or simply not dating at all, you are in a bad love habit. Your subconscious mind wants to keep the status quo and will fight to keep your habit alive. You need support to extract yourself from the toxic patterns and fully step into that amazing lovable person you are who has her soul mate at her side.
By having someone outside of you and away from the grips of your ego to guide you to the door to love freedom is what you need for faster, easier results in your relationship transformation. Doing it alone can take years, even decades. You don’t want to wait any longer. This is the time to invest in yourself once and for all and get the support and love you need.
Don’t waste time trying to understand all menThere is only ONE man you need to understand…Your Inner Adam™ – this is the part of your unconscious mind that regulates your romantic relationships with men. It is the template from which you operate – those triggered reactions, feelings of fear of getting close or why you fall apart when they stop calling. Your Inner Adam dictates the type of men you attract and the quality of relationships you have. Formed in early years, this is your relationship template. If you don’t change your Inner Adam, you will keep getting the same results no matter how many tricks you learn about what men want.
Men come in all shapes, backgrounds and personal philosophies so there is no value in learning about them because they don’t fit into any mold. If you want an extraordinary partner, you don’t want blanket advice on generic men and how they think. I know when I met Roberto, he doesn’t fit into any of the rules I was taught about men over the years. I just needed to love myself and heal my Inner Adam and my perfect match appeared effortlessly.
For the past ten years, I have personally worked with thousands of people, released my book, LET LOVE IN: Open Your Heart & Mind to Attract Your Ideal Partner (Wiley 2010) taught many courses over the years to help singles shift their self-love mindset to attract true love. Now, I put together my most comprehensive program ever – my Get Engaged in a Year Love Coaching Experience.
During this three-month program, you will be transported on a journey beyond your surface persona (where dating tips are taught) to becoming the empowered person ready for a lasting, healthy love relationship. Not only will you shift tremendously inside, you will also learn how to master your mindset to use the law of attraction to literally affect every area of your life.
Most people who go through this process see an immediate change in their confidence (usually within the first month) and awaken the spirit within them to do their life’s purpose. Some meet their ideal partner within the first few months and the lessons apply to maintaining that love relationship and making it grow even stronger.
This program was co-developed with my partner, Dr. Roberto Maldonado who is a psychologist with over 20 years of experience working in human development and potential. His grounded approach based on Jungian psychology and eastern philosophy gives you a sound approach to finding your true love, not a fly-by-night, flashing trick.
You will understand your persona and shadow and the deepest part of your psyche, The Inner Adam™ that is a portal to your true self. You cannot attract your authentic relationship without facing the Inner Adam and bringing it to conscious awareness. You will discover that you get more than an ideal partner, but you get your mind back v. having your subconscious habits leading you on autopilot.
Our Director of Coaching, Carrie Southern is also highly-skilled and trained in psychology and coaching. This is an advanced program with premium quality coaching and training.

My private coaching program is a minimum five figure investment and often sold out. In speaking to many of my customers, they were looking for an alternative to get the personalized attention at a fraction of the cost so I put together the Get Engaged in a Year Love Group Coaching Program that gives you all the information you need, access to me on the group calls and private sessions with one of my highly-trained lead love coaches on staff.
The problem with most courses is that you can often get stuck when you do it on your own. This program is designed to give you the full lectures, meditations and journal exercises to help you break free PLUS, your own personally-assigned love coach to guide you in our VIP Level or you get access to the coaches on the group calls to take you through the process every step of the way to ensure your success.
Two 60 minute calls per month lead by Debi Berndt, Roberto Maldonado, Ph.D. and Carrie Southern
Direct Access to Debi to answer your questions
All Calls are at Noon ET and will be recorded
Includes email support in-between sessions for the entire three months of the program
Private coaching with Carrie is for Fast-Track level only!
Carrie Southern, Certified Executive Coach, BA Psychology, brings an innovative, vibrant, candid style to coaching women. As co-founder of The Life Shop, Carrie has facilitated personal development workshops for women struggling with the aftermath of heart break and loss. Carrie understands there are no quick fixes when it comes to creating love in your life. What she offers is the opportunity for authentic and transformative self discovery. Carrie has years of experience coaching executive clients, ghostwriting for one of the world’s most successful personal development coaches, authoring a book for women struggling to overcome heart break, as well as being an Associate at Essential Impact. Since adolescence, Carrie has made personal growth a passionate pursuit in her own life. Her coaching is informed by experience and awareness rather than opinion. As a lover of knowledge, truth, and meaningful living, Carrie is whole -heartedly dedicated to helping you heal love scars, break free of the past, demystify love and create new and beautiful experiences.No two minds ever come together without a third invisible force, which may be likened to a “third mind.” When a group of individual minds are coordinated and function in harmony, the increased energy created through that alliance becomes available to every individual in the group.
~ Napolean Hill
Unlimited access to the Private Facebook Group set up specifically for this program. Interact with other singles (90% women) who are going through the same process)
Receive support, cross-sharing and inspiration from everyone. Debi and her coaching team will also be on hand to answer your questions posted on the group page.
Please note this is confidential and only members have access.

Debi will be recording new meditations for this group as well as including some of her most popular titles that give you maximum results. She will also develop new ones during the program dictated by the particular needs of the group.
The backbone of the program is to shift your deep thinking to attract the ideal mate. These are not simple guided meditations, but powerful tools that speak directly to your unconscious mind to create the mindset for true love. Most people see a difference just by listening to these meditations in the first two weeks!
TO GIVE YOU ALL THE TOOLS AND GUIDANCE YOU NEED TO ATTRACT YOUR IDEAL PARTNER
(OF COURSE, GETTING ENGAGED IS OPTIONAL!)
Although I cannot possibly tell you in detail all the great things you will learn or all the wonderful meditations you will have access to in this program, but here is a taste of what the modules look like.
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Review some of the upcoming modules with more to come in 2013!
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Note this is not a course. This high-quality, customized three month intensive coaching program requires a 4-figure investment.
If you put 100% into it, you will get 1000% out of it. I believe in this work so much that I am willing to guarantee it. If you take the program for the first 14 days and do not see any difference or feel it isn’t right for you, then just let us know, return the products, and we will give you a full refund