Welcome, Lovable One!

A DEEPER PATH THAT GETS YOU THE LOVE YOU WANT FASTER!

A love solution to be free of fixing and start living your amazing life.

Stop playing games, be authentically you and believe in love.

Hi, my name is Debi Berndt, NYC - a leading relationship and success mindset mentor and author of the best-selling book, LET LOVE IN: OPEN YOUR HEART & MIND TO ATTRACT YOUR IDEAL PARTNER (WILEY 2010). I have helped thousands of women to find their true love. If you are tired of trying clear your negative beliefs and fix yourself, you have come to the right place. You don’t have to change or fix anything, you have to become aware of your greater self.

My partner, Dr. Roberto Maldonado, neuro-psychologist, and I have developed  the Creative Love Process™  based on Jungian psychology and eastern philosophy. We offer a grounded approach to help you attain a higher STATE OF MIND so you can consciously create the life of your dreams including true, lasting love, dream career and a spiritual life that is real and grounded.  You are already amazing and deserve an awesome, attractive man who ADORES YOU and do the work you love while making a substantial income.

You want more than to just catch a man, you want lasting love with a person that is going to rock your world and make all your married friends wish they had taken these steps. We developed the Inner Adam™ approach that is proven to transform your relationships with men so you can attract (and be attracted to) a healthy relationship.

You can attract true love and wealth using our Creative Love Process™, a unique combination of eastern and western psychology, philosophy, spirituality and universal principles. All areas of your life will transform as you become more conscious of the power of your own mind.

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Too much dating coaching advice out there tells you what you are doing wrong and why your romantic life isn’t working, but not many tell you HOW TO CHANGE IT.  Come join me on this journey to find the love of your life in the fastest, easiest way.

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Testimonials

Looks like the wedding will probably be May 18th… I’m really excited! Thanks! I really do think the work we did for attracting a loving partner was what helped draw us to each other!”

-C.B., Denver, CO

“Debra has helped me to change the course of my life in a most miraculous way… we’re all responsible for our choices and ultimately our lives but receiving assistance as we travel our journey is not only beneficial but sometimes very necessary. Debra helped to create an awareness in my spirit, which allowed the process of healing and spiritual growth to be accelerated, which then took me to places in life that I never could have imagined. Everything became new again and I was able to take the risks that I otherwise may not have had the courage to take. I feel like a brand new creature with an amazing life that I created and Debra showed me how to do that. Thanks so much Deb… I love you

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-K.C., Orlando, FL

Debra’s book and our sessions have been one of the best investments I have made in myself. Through the work we have been doing together the past five months, I have made more progress than I had in years of therapy. I am very thankful and grateful to Debra for helping me to find my one true love – MYSELF! And, because of the love and confidence I feel for myself, I have met a very special man that could be the “one”!

-F. P., Queens, NY

“I just wanted to send you a note to thank you for the amazing positive change you have made to my life. I signed up for your STL Breakthrough Course towards the end of last year and enjoyed every minute (even addressing all the difficult questions I had to ask myself!) I absolutely loved the tele classes and the homework too; it made such a difference making the time to sit down and do all the exercises.I read your book around the same time and even though there was no-one in my life (romantically) and no-one on the horizon, I just kept on keeping the faith and telling myself that I should really enjoy all this time to myself because I never knew when I would be in a relationship and be busy with the man of my dreams!

To my surprise and delight I had already met the man of my dreams (I just hadn’t realised it…) and he asked me on a date on January 20th. We are soon to celebrate our 6 month anniversary and we couldn’t be happier. Despite the odd argument there is a fundamental respect and gratitude there that steers the way for us. I just wanted to thank you because if it wash;t for your resources and support I would have been in the ‘right place’ to meet someone and enjoy a fulfilling relationship. I never knew how easy and relaxing a relationship could be. Thank you Debi!”
E.O., Canada

 

Thank you very much not only for these Holiday Gifts but for all the good that is right now in my life. Your classes and meditations have changed my view of myself. Now I am seeing myself as the wonderful woman who was there covered with the thick layer of my BS. I am shinning in a way that I never imagine before. Continue doing the amazing things that you do because they work. Have the wonderful Christmas that you well deserve and I am pretty sure that 2012 will be fabulous for you and Roberto. Receive a BIG HUG!
-G.C., Phoenix, AZ

 

Cutting Ties with Ex and Moving On to Find LOVE

I had a long time, on again off again, affair with a man in OKC who had been getting divorced for about 5 yrs. It was very unhealthy and I was having a hard time letting go.  I had met another man who I was very impressed with and wanted to see where that would go, but realized that my energy being divided in the way it was, would probably get in the way.

We did a couple of sessions and cut the ties with the man in OKC. Well long story short, David, the new man is now very much in my life! He is everything I have ever dreamed of! When I looked at my list of my ideal mate, he fits 95%! We are so happy. And planning to be married sometime within the next year.  So thank you. thank you~ – DM, Denver, CO

Attracting Love

During a singles event in February 2009 I participated in your “heart light” exercise designed to attract love.  In my mind a dark, backlit figure approached me. I never saw his face. We had a warm, short chat, and then parted, saying we’d see each other soon. We hugged and I felt and saw that he was wearing a soft black sweater with white flecks in it. Later that night, a black man bumped into me at the singles event.  We connected immediately.  He was wearing a soft black sweater with white flecks in it! Since then he and I have been nearly inseparable. At 52, I had given up hope of finding my life match, but this man possesses all of the qualities I seek. How amazing to know that I first saw this incredible human being in my mind during the heart light exercise, and then met the real deal about an hour later. Imagine that!  Thanks, Deb.

Barbara -Denver, Colorado

Debra took me through a hypnosis session on career and prosperity and a session on finding my lifetime partner, and after listening to both sessions on a daily basis I have noticed significant changes in my career opportunities and in the attention that men give me. I feel like my self-confidence and self worth have grown exponentially because of working with Debra.  I very highly recommend her services.

DLH-Washington, DC
It works!
“Since my divorce nearly 6 years ago, my dating experience was one “dud” after another. A friend gave me the Attract the Love of Your Life CD, and I listened to it before bed a few times….within the next 30 days, I met the love of my life! For the first time ever, I am enjoying feeling loved, appreciated, being romanced, in a loving relationship. I recommend this CD to anyone who is ready to meet the love of his/her life! R.H. – Denver, CO

“Looks like the wedding will probably be May 18th. I’m really excited! Thanks! I really do think the hypnosis for attracting a loving partner was what helped draw us to each other!”
C.B. – Denver, CO

Hi Deb,
So, first I want to tell you that I have found love this summer!!!! I bought the 7 set MP3 set from you and listened to at least one session every day!!! And at the same time, I stopped worrying about it… and lo and behold, I met Aaron! I am singing from the rooftops! I have been waving your book around as I sing! I’ve given a copy of your book to 4 of my friends so far!!!! They are into it too!

-Mari Ruddy, Denver, Colorado

The Love Switch Series is powerful! After many years of failed relationships, I uncovered my own inner blocks and could see that I was choosing the wrong men. Apparently, my “type” really isn’t for me. At least not for marriage. What an aha moment! I’ve gained a deeper understanding of my role in creating a healthy relationship and Debi has given me the tools and processes I need to move forward. Her wisdom, dedication and loving spirit have made it an inspiring learning experience. And, after only a few weeks I’ve noticed that I am attracting more men….nice men. I’m feeling more confident and excited about meeting my amazing man!

M.B., B.C., Canada

Clearing Blocks

Deb is just an absolutely extraordinary woman in my eyes.  The work that she has done with me has helped to release an issue that I have been unable to release for years even doing work with other people.  And, it occurred in only one session with her.  Both on a personal and a professional level Deb has always been such a huge support to me and I am eternally grateful for not only who she is for me, but who she is for everyone.

-Darcy Volden Hoag, Founder, Secrets Of Her Success – www.SecretsOfHeSuccess.com

Creative Wealth Program

I wanted to let you know how you have affected my life. I had been practicing the law of attraction for a year or so before I discovered you. I desired to increase my income, but knew I had prejudices against money and was struggling. I checked out a book from the library on self-hypnosis thinking I could teach myself to break down those barriers. Well, I guess I attracted you because shortly after that I saw you on 7 News at a very odd time for me to be tuning in. I ended up ordering Creative Wealth from your website and have increased my pay by 60%! And all in less than one year. Thank you for your part in that!

I really think highly of your products, and value your insight.

K.L., Denver, CO

Thank you Debi! Wow what a difference a year can make. So much has happened since we started working together. When we first started out I couldn’t imagine leaving my full time job and starting my own business as well as teaching training courses and starting a radio show. New and wonderful opportunities keep showing up at my door step and I’m super excited to see what amazing new possibilities will show tomorrow. I now feel like a completely new person, where nothing is impossible. Your mind re-patterning meditation exercises and techniques were part of what got me started on transforming my life, as well as your continued support and love.  Truly, the sky is not the limit, but only the beginning!  Thank you again Debi for all your loving encouragement.
All the Best,
Christina NYC
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Manifest ANYthing! Program
Manifest Anything is one of Amazon’s happy little surprises–it’s too soon to tell if I’m going to manifest my own “anything” (my goal is rather long-term), but I can say that everything about this CD, from the recording quality, to the very pleasant and soothing voice, to the visions it inspires, is absolutely top-quality. Manifestation aside, it’s like a visit to the spa, and you emerge from the experience feeling rested, energized, and full of confidence that the rest of the day will go well.

I noticed that a reviewer of another of Debra Berndt’s cds was disappointed that the length of the session on that CD wasn’t very long. This one isn’t, either, but that, in my estimation, is one of its strengths. I have other CDs of this genre that range from half an hour to an hour, and frankly, I just won’t use them because it takes too large a chunk of my time to use them regularly as I should. At about 15 minutes, this session is perfect–and trust me, it’s packed with valuable imagery and suggestions. It’s the best 15 minutes of my day!

If you have a spare 15 minutes, give this one a try. I think you’ll be glad you did!

J.G., Lexington, KY

I LOVE your Manifest Anything! program. Ever since I started listening to it, I have seen so many shifts in my life. A new business opportunity which I am really excited about and is taking off. Your program helps me remember that I am in control of my own destiny.  Thank you for what you do!

D.H., Evergreen, CO

About the Breakup Recovery CD:
“This has helped me tremendously. I will say though at first I seemed to have got stuck on the letting go part. Everything about me felt as though I needed to let go, but my heart seemed sad about it or something. I am not sure how to put it into words. I did, however, stick with it and little by little I started feeling a lot better. But with continuing and not giving up, I feel like it has helped me now get a hold of my situation and start to move forward. I am reading again and starting to enjoy the things I do have in my life, and I credit the CD for that. Maybe it forced me to go through a mourning period first in order to move forward.” C.T., Denver, CO

Accepting Love: Confidence in a New Relationship CD
“I loved the CD! Volume is great and the content was more than I could have ever imagined. What a boost to my self-esteem. I listened to it for the first time yesterday and listened to it four times before the day was over. I had the best sleep last night than I have had for a couple years. It is very hard for me to relax and sit still for any amount of time, but I did it not once but four times yesterday.” K.S., Denver, CO.

 

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LET LOVE IN BOOK REVIEWS From Amazon:

The Most Powerful Healing Tool for Love I’ve Seen

This book is truly masterful, getting to core issues that prevent someone from finding love. I’ve been a dating coach since 2002, working with thousands of women over 40, read countless books on dating and have written three of my own. That said, Debra helps the reader get to the bottom of and transform beliefs that get in the way of love. This is not a superficial approach to dating. It’s for the woman who is ready to transform her romantic karma once and for all to find lasting love. Don’t wait another minute to purchase this book. -Ronnie Ann Ryan, CT

flawless

This book unfolds magnificently. Its genius is in the way it leads you to yourself. Debra wastes no pages, paragraphs, sentences, or even words because the honesty demands a kind of efficiency one rarely finds in books of this genre. By being ruthlessly honest with herself, she is able to offer the reader thorough purity. While reading “Let Love In”, you will surely ask yourself tough questions which I guarantee will prove invaluable as you realize your thinking patterns and attachments. Part of the fun is that the tough questions are accompanied by bright little light bulbs – whether you are male or female. Before opening to page 1, I was apprehensive that this book would only speak to women, but these principles, ideas, and exercises are translatable across genders and even relevant to other aspects of life. The title of this book could just as easily be, LET LIFE IN. I certainly plan to.  A.S., New York, NY

A New and Refreshing Book on Finding Love

I have to say that I was very impressed by this book. I have read a lot of books on dating, and attracting the right person and it was so refreshing to read a book that is focused on healing feelings of unworthiness and learning how to empower yourself and create a strong and healthy self image. I am married, but found many pearls of wisdom that I will be able to incorporate into my life in all areas. I will be reading this a second time and referring to it often.

-Marla Martensen, Author of Diary of a Beverly Hills Matchmaker

If you had to read one book, this is it!

This is one of the best books I’ve read on relationships and the subconscious mind. It’s written in an easy-to-understand and straightforward way. What sets this book apart from other self-help/dating books in the market is that the author zeroes in on the crux of the problem, instead of glossing over it like most of the self-help books out there. She lays out the groundwork by clearly explaining the functions of the subconscious mind and its effects on our lives. She also demystifies the stereotype and false beliefs surrounding hypnosis. She makes you delve deep into your psyche by making you question the origin of your core beliefs and then guides you through a step-by-step self-hypnosis exercises in order to tap into your subconscious mind and rewire your internal software. When the conscious mind isn’t alligned with the subconscious mind’s core beliefs then we unwittingly attract unfavorable partners and situations. Our conscious mind desires to find love, a healthy relationship and a happy marriage, but our subconscious mind believes it’s far-fetched and impossible. As a result, we find ourselves caught in the same horrible cycle. The conscious mind and the subconscious mind must work harmoniously together in order to create favorable situations in our lives and to magnetize men/women who are nurturing, honest, and compatible.

-Sara, Bahrain

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  1. Self Help Books
    534 days ago

    Will surely recommend this site to some friends! Very interesting site and articles. Really thankful for sharing. Regards,

  2. You’ve got great insights about mental coaching, keep up the good work!


  3. Lee
    400 days ago

    Debi, just heard your interview with Orna and Matthew Walters and you were AMAZING!!! You spoke to me as a single woman looking for true love, and gave so much wisdom filled advice. WOW… THANK YOU SO MUCH!!! you are awesome!!!


  4. Linda
    384 days ago

    Debi,
    This is Linda from the call last night. Just wanted to let you know that you caused a major shift and have given me alot to think about and meditate about.
    I have been doing work on myself for years, but the insight that you provided me about False Self Esteem was the piece of the puzzle I was missing. For years I was an over achiever to get attention from my parents and I did not realize until your response yesterday that I was so dependent on the opinion of others in my life. Thank you for that gift. I do now need to ask…who am I? from an authentic place. I am so glad I was on the call and I am so thankful that I had the courage to share.
    Thank you, thank you, thank you, and of course bless you.
    Linda


  5. sutasinee
    308 days ago

    I am now in Oman.
    I want to feel peace in my mind and want to feel loved , be wanted from man,
    want to attract caring man and loving relationship.
    I dona’t know how I can start from your srvice
    Please suggest


  6. Sandie
    251 days ago

    Great post nice to see someone that really believes in the power of love

  7. great, fun blog. thank you for all your advice!


  8. Michelle
    226 days ago

    How do I order this book..

    ~Misha


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    117 days ago

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  10. Heidi J
    87 days ago

    Dearest Debi

    I just want to thank you from my Heart, for your free 3 part lectures on how to find true love.
    Not to bore you with a very long story of my life that could make a blockbuster. But to say that very very much of what you say, I have been through. Unfortunately my BS ( no matter how much I have worked on my self). Has left me in a situation where I am today on pre pension, with load of financial depth. My whole physical and psychological system has suffer major. I have PTSD. No matter if I stayed single for years, and did watch out, over and over, Even though I did pray very much, and wish to be with Batman I always ended up with Lex Luther! I understand everything you say with my intellect, but I still do not understand what I don’t understand, and what I do wrong. I just had a relationship for almost a year ( after being Single for four years, by choice). the guy seemed nice, religious background, Masters degree, no over charming attitude! still he turned out to have told me one lie after the other lie, I was chocked and deeply hurt!
    I want my life, I want to live I want to be happy! Help me GOD and sweet Debi
    Thank you very very much.

    Heidi from over Denmark


  11. Lauren
    18 days ago

    Hi, Debi,
    Just starting to explore Shadow Side, and you popped up! My husband and I will celebrate 32 years of marriage in a couple of months. This just gives us new material to keep on making a really good relationship even better.
    Looking forward to your course,
    Lauren

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